Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I am a submissive. I believe it stems from my traditional upbringing. The Man is the head of the house, and yes he will dominate me.
I can switch and be a Domme, but only when I am with another woman. Where is that traditional upbringing now 🙂
The parts that interest me most is the trust. It isn’t so much about the sex as it is the trust. Trust is vital in a D/s relationship, simply put you aren’t going to let someone render you helpless if you don’t trust them. At least I hope not.
A couple of weeks ago, my Sir said ” I want to drug you and play out an abduction scene. I need your permission.” I thought about it, and with a grin I said “Yes. I trust you, you know my limitations, whatever you want.” The smile on his face was delightful. Being able to make him happy, makes me so happy.
This is what it means to me to be a submissive. The monumental trust, the desire to make my Sir happy, and the willingness to stop at (almost) nothing to do so.